Last year was my first ALA conference. Before that, I was a regular attendee at the AWP conference, so I brought in a bunch of strategies I'd learned from that.
Best piece of advice I can offer: pace yourself and drink water. Don't try to do everything. Intentionally set aside breaks in your day to rest and recharge.
Second best piece of advice: set a budget, add $50 (or a bit more if you can afford it), and stick to it as best you can. There will be more conference goodies for sale and more new releases/advance copies than you will expect. The sellers will likely also offer discounts, particularly as the conference goes on, because it's more cost-effective to sell out your stock than ship extras back home. Despite this, you don't have to buy everything right away. Take photos of the books/goodies that catch your eye, grab folks' business cards, and follow up when you get home (or in a few months when your finances recovered). If it's not a conference exclusive or a limited edition art print, it can wait.
For deciding which events/sessions to attend, I usually try to find an even mix of sessions that are directly relevant to my current job, continuing education sessions that relate to my long-term goals/interests, and a few sessions that just sound fun (author readings, book signings, trivia, etc). I'll mark a few sessions as "MUST ATTEND" from the first two categories (relevant to job/long-term goals) and mentally note the rest as "this would be nice, but it's not the end of the world if I miss it for whatever reason."
For off-site/social events, I know my limit is usually one, maybe two things per night at most. Last year, I bought a ticket for an early evening walking tour and timed it so I could walk directly to a Round Table meetup with a meal break in between. I ended up grabbing dinner with some other ALA folks on the walking tour, so that was a rare three-event night for me. I met another poster presenter at the dinner, which was a nice point of connection. I also met some familiar faces at the meetup, so all three events felt like just the right level of meeting people and reconnecting with folks. I made a point to have dinner alone the next night in a different corner of the city, just for a treat. For me, that felt like a good balance of socializing and taking time to enjoy the city on my own.
I hope this helps. Have fun in Chicago, y'all!
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Ron Martin-Dent
Archives and Special Collections Librarian
Fort Hays State University
Forsyth Library
He/Him/His
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